
βHugging is the ideal gift. Great for any occasion, fun to give and receive, shows you care, comes with its own wrapping and, of course, is fully returnable. Hugging is practically perfect. No batteries to wear out, inflation-proof, nonfattening, no monthly payments, theft-proof and nontaxable.β
Whenever I feel a bit down (for reasons that only us moms would know), I always count on a hug from the little boy who freely gives them. He grew up receiving hugs from me, an awful lot, thatβs why he knows when I needed them most. At times, heβs just so happy with something, heβd embrace me really tight β just because. His hugs are most appreciated when Iβm on the verge of crying. I really donβt need to say anything, he just comes up to me and hugs meβ¦makes me smile all the time. There were of course those moments when he gets scared, he would run to me and cling. Iβd hug him real tight to let him know that Iβm there, that Iβll be there to protect him.
Β ΒNow that heβs a bit grown, the hugs, though not forgotten, doesnβt come as often as they used to. Itβs readily given when asked and when needed but not when heβs happy. I guess the things he does as a child has taken much of his time. Thatβs when the one-minute hugs came to be known between us.
Itβs a routine that we have any given time and day. Iβll just say βhugβ and we would wrap our arms around each other, he, counting from 1 until 60 β equivalent of a minute. We both learned to appreciate those moments.
The hugs are mostly for me. Itβs my way of remembering how once I held this sweet child in my arms for hours on end. How I spent sleepless nights watching over him, making sure heβs sound asleep and not hurting. I guess itβs just me comforting myself, that heβs all grown up, Iβm getting oldβ¦without the one-minute hugs and a few years from now, heβd probably tire from it all. Well, itβs just meβ¦a mom, thinking aloud.
That would be a good exercise. A hug does take much of the stress away.
hugging is a form of love, security and affection, my children are now grown up β 22 and 13 years old yet they still hug me tight when they get home from work and school aside from the mano po mommy π
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Our children will definitely grow and become adults and giving them or receiving from them a warm embrace is not that frequent anymore. What matters now, is the sense of security that is formed during those tight hugs given to them when they were young.
I am a very touchy person. I love cuddling and hugging my husband. I think, its art of me being really malambing. But a hug is more than a physical connection with the person important to you.
This is a very sweet post. Whenever Iβm down and tired, a hug can really do wonders. I canβt imagine how good a hug will feel especially when itβs from your own child.. π